I've observed over the years that many relationships encounter problems due to the insecurities of one mate or both. It seems as though people jump into these relationships thinking that they will be able to conquer anything without logically evaluating things first. First, I don't care what anyone says, that whole "love will conquer all" BS is just that BS! Not saying I don't believe in love, I'm just a realist and it's somethings that even for love you can't take.
Secondly, most of the time these insecurites that these people have stem from one of two places; their own shortcomings or trust issues. When I say their own short comings, I'm speaking of them knowing that they are liable to cheat, flirt, etc. and so they automatically assume that their mate will too. Or they feel that in some area of life or within them self they are lacking or don't feel complete. This is common in the beginning stages of relationships when trust hasn't yet really been completely built. Although, in a perfect world you wouldn't be in a relationship before building that level of trust in the first place. In addition, trust issues lead to insecurities because of the simple fact they don't trust their mate.
Next thing you know you're checking myspace messages, going through text messages, facebook, twitter, etc. And if you have to monitor all of these things to be with someone, then what's really the point? You can't be with someone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week so do you honestly think that if they are looking to cheat they won't? A relationship requires trust, not insecurities.
In conclusion, before entering into relationships evaluate them prior. There's no need to get into a relationship and be insecure. Attacking everyone that speaks to your mate, messages them, comes in contact witht them, checking social networks, etc. is not the answer. It will only make you look like an insecure psychopath.
